ISU Alliance Blog

Week of October 12

2009-10-12T13:51:00.013-05:00

Well hello, I hope you had a good weekend and enjoyed some of the festivities of National Coming Out Week.

I will post some events going on around Ames but first I want to discuss this: beating of a gay man possible hate crime. So basically this guy was attacked and beat into a coma and the guys who attacked him yelled anti-gay slurs.

This is not to get all depressed. I'm all for celebrating and for having fun, for being who we are and doing what we want. But I don't want to forget that it's not over, we are not safe yet. And if this can happen in NYC, imagine what can happen here in Iowa if we don't watch out, what is happening in some other countries.

For me this is a reminder, a reminder to do something, anything. Attend a meeting, read an article, object if I hear the phrase that's so gay, go to an alliance event or some other lgbt group to show support, even do my homework right so the professor can be: wow I didn't know a lesbian could be such a good student (believe me some people think that). And of course after doing something, anything then it is time to celebrate and party.

So for the next week here is a list of a couple of events and things to do:

Alliance Meeting

Wednesday @ 7:30 p.m. @ tba

http://www.alliance.stuorg.iastate.edu/ISU_LGBTA_Alliance/Welcome.html

Check the web page, in the following weeks we will have game night, and a Halloween party.

Out Networking Monthly Meeting

Wednesday October 14, 5:30-7:00 pm

1408 Locust St. Des Moines, IA

Yes it says the 7th but that's a mistake and it is on the 14.

Out Networking is a social, business, and philanthropic networking organization for anyone who is lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgendered, questioning or supportive. The group presents year-round events focused on business, culture, community, and philanthropic subjects.

Iowa Pride Network College Meeting

Saturday October 17, 11:00-3:00 pm

Gold Room, Memorial Union, Ames, Iowa

The Iowa Pride Network College Coalition brings Iowa's college and university LGBT groups together to strengthen LGBT Organizations, work on coordinated activities across the state in order to show community and solidarity.

Well I know there is more going on but I only want to post things that I have gone in the past or are going to go just to make sure it is fun. So if you know something awesome that is going on let me know so I can post it.

And for the fun of it logo has some short film videos and they want your vote on the best!

Have a nice week.

Gaymes: week of September 14

2009-09-14T13:35:00.003-05:00

So a long time ago I tried to write a weekly blog catered to lesbian and bi women around ames/iowa with info about all sorts of queer things that are going around Ames, Des Moines and the Midwest.

I just went to Mankato pride this past weekend, what a great time, the people there was nice and there was this amazing band: sick of sarah, an all lesbian band, you can check them out here: http://www.sickofsarah.com/

They will be coming to Des Moines in October 11 so yeah.

Alliance Meeting

Wednesday @ 7:30 p.m. @ 2121 Martin Hall

http://www.alliance.stuorg.iastate.edu/ISU_LGBTA_Alliance/Welcome.html

Here are some other events that are NOT hosted by the Alliance but they are of interest as well:

Lez-Bi-Real
September 15 @ Sloss House

http://www.dso.iastate.edu/lgbtss/services/support/

Lez-Bi-Real is a support and social group for lesbian, bisexual, and questioning women who are students at ISU. The purpose of this group is to provide confidential, unqualified support in an atmosphere that feels safe for asking questions and sharing stories, and to make time for a bit of socializing.

Iowa Pride Network (IPN) GSA Registration Drive
September 21- 30

http://iowapridenetwork.blogspot.com/2009/08/gsa-registration-drive-set-for-sept-21.html

Volunteers are needed to call Iowa's High Schools and Colleges to discover Gay Straight Alliances. The GSA Registration Drive helps IPN focus its efforts on schools who request support starting a GSA and providing resources to schools who want to create safe learning environments for all students.

Drag Show @ Headliners
Wednesday September 16 @ 11:00 p.m. @ Headliners
Weekly Drag show, must b e 21 to enter, 3 dollars cover, show starts at 11

Those are the events for this week!

all 1 dance party

2009-09-12T13:07:00.004-05:00

Tonight starting at 9pm till 2am. We're tranforming the M-Shop into a dance club. $5 general admission. $3 for due paying members.

The All 1 Dance Party is a once a month [held on the 2nd Saturday of each month this semester]. We will be playing the hottest tracks, mash-ups, rare remixes, and occational performances. Tell all of your friends about it.

And I am for sure will be playing this song.

Campus Pride Issues Warning regarding Princeton Review’s Top 20 “Gay Community Accepted” College Ranking

2009-08-20T08:59:00.000-05:00

Campus Pride Issues Warning regarding the Princeton Review’s Top 20 “Gay Community Accepted” College Ranking

National nonprofit organization states that the educational preparatory company's college ranking is "erroneous & potentially misleading, harmful to LGBT youth & families"
(CHARLOTTE, NC, Thursday, August 13, 2009) -- Campus Pride issues a warning regarding the Top 20 “Gay Community Accepted” and “Alternative Lifestyle Not an Alternative” rankings in the 2010 edition of the Princeton Review’s annual college guide The Best 371 Colleges (Random House/Princeton Review, $22.99). The national nonprofit organization believes that not only is the use of “alternative lifestyle” problematic when referring to the lives of LGBT people, but the methodology Princeton Review used to garner their findings is too simplistic and could potentially lead to harmful, unsafe choices for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) students looking for acceptance and support during college.

The criteria that Princeton Review used to determine the best LGBT “acceptance” at colleges was not based on significant LGBT student opinions or research related to inclusive LGBT policies, programs or practices as one might expect. Their rankings were based off one single question asked to 122,000 students at the 371 top colleges -- whether they agreed or disagreed with the following statement: “Students, faculty, and administrators treat all persons equally regardless of their sexual orientation and gender identity/expression.”

“This list is an erroneous, misleading indicator of acceptance for LGBT youth and their safety on campus,” said Shane Windmeyer, founder and executive director of Campus Pride and the author of The Advocate College Guide for LGBT Students, the first-ever guide profiling the 100 Best LGBT-Friendly Colleges, released in 2006 by Alyson Books. “The majority of students responding to such a question – irrespective of response – will be straight. Their perceptions of equality are likely quite different from those of LGBT students.”

While Princeton Review— a widely trusted company—believes that their rankings are created to help parents and students determine which school is right for them, Campus Pride believes that parents who are truly concerned for their children’s safety and well-being will be misled by these particular findings. Campus Pride strongly believes that given the rise in violence and harassment among LGBT students, there are serious issues to consider when looking for the right college.

Another reason for concern is the dated use of the words ‘alternative lifestyle’ when referring to the lives of LGBT people. “It’s disrespectful and out of touch because it alludes that being gay is a choice and something that can be cured,” Windmeyer said. “The insensitivity to language is a major warning sign that this guide does not have the nuanced perspective to be a trusted resource and to truly understand the complexity of LGBT students’ lives and needs.”

Campus Pride believes that LGBT students deserve better. “Today more and more LBGT high school youth are making life decisions on the college that not only best fits their academic needs, but also a college where they can live and learn openly in a safe and welcoming environment,” says Windmeyer. “If students and families do decide to use the Princeton Review as a resource, I would encourage them to compare its rankings for LGBT schools with those available from the Campus Climate Index (http://www.campusclimateindex.org) – plus, it’s free.”

The Campus Climate Index, developed by Campus Pride in 2007, is an online educational research tool for LGBT students and their families with over 200+ colleges and universities with inclusive LGBT policies, programs and practices. In 2010, Campus Pride’s National LGBT College Climate Survey (http://www.campuspride.org/research) will share the attitudes and perceptions of LGBT students, faculty and staff in a report titled “The State of Higher Education for LGBT People.”

For more information on Campus Pride, please visit www.campuspride.org.

4th friday potlock & phonebank today!

2009-07-24T13:43:00.001-05:00

Outsiders will be visiting the Ames community to spread hate and lies, so we're coming together to share food, socialize and celebrate equality & respect for all in spite of their efforts. Help us call Iowa voters and have productive conversations about marriage equality, spreading understanding and protecting our newly recognized freedoms.

Staff from One Iowa and local volunteers will be present to provide callers with all the training they need to have a great time talking to Iowa voters about marriage equality!

** Please bring your cell phone and charger to use for the phonebank **

Doors will open at 6:00pm, with phonebank training at 6:00pm & 7:15pm. The meal starts around 6:30pm (or when food & tables are set up)!

The event is open to all community members (including ISU students). If bringing food isn't convenient, just show up! There are plenty of ways to contribute (e.g. helping with set-up and clean-up). There is always enough food to share.

For questions about the phonebank event, please call or email Matt Fender (mfender@lambdalegal.org) or (646)752-5932. Please contact Joel Geske (curlyjoe1955@yahoo.com) with any questions about the location or meal.

new website

2009-07-24T13:38:00.001-05:00

Our new website is up. Please update your bookmarks and favorites. Check it out:

LGBTA Alliance Website.

he's at it again

2009-06-25T10:04:00.004-05:00

Fred Phelps and his posse over at the Westboro Baptist Church will be in town on July 24 from 4:45-5:00 pm.

This is from their press release:
Iowa State University - We're back to tell you God H8s You! SW corner of W. Lincoln Way & University Blvd What's up ISU? Long time, no see. While we are in the area to picket Marshalltown, we thought we'd stop by and say "God Hates You"; "You're Going To Hell" and "God Hates Fags" Iowa says "It's Okay To Be Gay", and was the first to begin giving $ to little perverts for no other reason than they brag about being little perverts. God Hates Iowa, and all who live there are cursed. Deuteronomy 11:26 Behold, I set before you this day a blessing and a curse; 27 A blessing, if ye obey the commandments of the LORD your God, which I command you this day: 28 And a curse, if ye will not obey the commandments of the LORD your God, but turn aside out of the way which I command you this day, to go after other gods, which ye have not known. 29 And it shall come to pass, when the LORD thy God hath brought thee in unto the land whither thou goest to possess it, that thou shalt put the blessing upon mount Gerizim, and the curse upon mount Ebal. 30 Are they not on the other side Jordan, by the way where the sun goeth down, in the land of the Canaanites, which dwell in the champaign over against Gilgal, beside the plains of Moreh? 31 For ye shall pass over Jordan to go in to possess the land which the LORD your God giveth you, and ye shall possess it, and dwell therein. 32 And ye shall observe to do all the statutes and judgments which I set before you this day. Obama's gonna destroy your State with his "economic program" and then you are going to eat you little babies - you heard it here FIRST. AMEN!

Too bad we won't be there. Summer session ends on the 10th of July. I'm not wasting my summer vacation dealing with them. I have more important things to do like solving the middle east crisis, alternative energy, global warming, world hunger, and world peace.

pictures from des moines pride 09

2009-06-24T10:44:00.002-05:00

capital city pride info

2009-06-09T10:17:00.001-05:00

Naked Pride
Friday, June 12, 2009 7:30 p.m.
Sheslow Auditorium, Drake University, 25th & University, Des Moines

The Chorus finds just the right mix of songs for a free-spirited Capital City Pride weekend and songs from a cycle called Naked Man. Composer Robert Seeley says, "Naked Man not only addresses experiences in Gay culture, it celebrates the human condition. We all go through life shedding layers of ourselves, our masks and our insecurities, in order to express our true selves." Experience a powerful night of pride with the Des Moines Gay Men's Chorus.

N.B. Unfortunately, no men will actually be naked in this choral performance

Interfaith Brunch for Pride
Saturday, June 13, 2009 10:30 - Noon
FIRST UNITARIAN CHURCH, 1800 Bell Ave., Des Moines

An opportunity for LGBT folks and their allies from different faith communities and the larger community, too, to come together for food, fun, and fellowship! Enjoy a bountiful brunch buffet that will include vegetarian options. Free will offering welcome.

RSVP to Mark at 274-0925 or scorpiored48@yahoo.com .

Childcare is also available upon request.

Pride Street Party!
6/13/09 6:00pm

The street Party will start at 6pm in the heart of the Historic East Village with entertainment and dancing until midnight. Headliner Kristine W. performs!
The cost is $3 for a wristband to drink if you are over 21. (Passes for both the street party and Sunday’s festival are $5).

Pride Brunch
6/14/09 9:00am

Pride Brunch this year will be at the Grand Piano Bistro on Grand Avenue between East 5th and East 6th St. $20 before and $25 at the door. For information email info@capitalcitypride.org

Pride Fest 2009
6/14/09 12:00 noon

Starts at noon with entertainment until 6pm. $3 for a wristband to drink if you are over 21. (Passes for both Saturdays Street Fest and Sundays Fest are $5)

Gay Day at Adventureland Park
6/15/09 10:00am

Join all your friends for a family fun day at our local amusement park. Each year we all try to coordinate matching colors so we can find one another. This years color is Purple. If you haven’t been before - Catch the wave! Discount tickets available at the Capital City Pride booth at the Street fest on June 13th and the festival on June 14th or by emailing vice_moderator@capitalcitypride.org. Save $10 off the regular admission price by purchasing through Capital City Pride

Laramie Project

2009-05-31T13:46:00.000-05:00

Hey guys.

Marshalltown Community Theatre is presenting "The Laramie Project" on July 24-26, July 30 and Aug. 1.

Sources claim that the Westboro Baptist Church will be picketing the show.

The theater would be willing to offer group discount tickets.

You can learn more about the Marshalltown Community Theatre by going to their website.

You can also contact Tom LaVille (the director) for additional information or tickets at 641-752-0153 or email at tlaville@earthlink.com

2009-05-13T18:03:00.003-05:00

Congratulations are in order for the following LGBTA Alliance cabinet members for recieving honors and recognition during the Lav Grad & Small Victories ceremony.

Leah, our out-going Secretary was honored with the Academic Execellence Award.
Marisol, our out-going Logistics Chair was honored with the Community Development Award.
Kelly, our Vice President won the Emerging Leader Award and the Walter J. Allen & Shaun B. Keister Scholarship.
Callen, our President was named Student of the Year (Undergradute), and also the recipient of Scott Rohlf Presidential Leadership Initiative Award and scholarship.

Congrats!

Also, we are pleased to announce the LGBTAA cabinet for the fall 2009- spring 2010 school year.

Historians: Curt P. & Amy B.
Logistics: Kay W.
PR/Advertising: Mike A.
Fundraising: Holland D.
Treasurer: Anna H.
Secretary: Stephanie I.
Vice President: Kelly M.
President: Callen U.

Good luck!

Have a great summer. Don't forget to add us on Twitter, and Facebook.

lav grad & small victories celebration!

2009-04-27T08:28:00.000-05:00

Lavender Graduation and Small Victories Celebration
7:00PM-9:00PM
Sun Room, Memorial Union
Iowa State University

All are welcome, RSVP to lgbtss@iastate.edu.

Keynote Speaker: Reverend Brian Eslinger.

2009-04-26T11:53:00.000-05:00

2009-04-13T06:59:00.000-05:00

Opponents of equality are at it again! Once again on Monday, extremists will protest the unanimous Iowa Supreme Court decision and push additional measures to undermine the Court's historic decision! Monday's protest follows a similar protest last Thursday that saw opponents of equality disrupt the House Chambers with chants and political gamesmanship.

In response, One Iowa is calling on Iowans across the state to participate in a virtual rally asking our elected officials to continue work on issues of common concern to all Iowans. In the midst of a budget shortfall, job losses, and last year's devastating floods, our elected officials should put aside divisive politics and continue to work for all Iowans!

TAKE ACTION ONLINE!
Sign the Rally for Common Concern petition. Signatures will be delivered to House leadership later in the day.

2009-04-12T22:17:00.000-05:00

2009-04-08T11:43:00.000-05:00

"Defendant appeals from district court summary judgment ruling holding state statute limiting civil marriage to a union between a man and a woman unconstitutional. AFFIRMED." read the rest of the 69 page court ruling here.

There are still federal laws that make same-sex couples second class citizens when it comes to issues like tax law, veterans' entitlements, health care subsidies, aged care, immigration law, etc. Given the positive progression of laws that have, in the past, discriminated against gender, race and age, it's disappointing same-sex couples' rights still have a long way to go. I think we need to look at how equality is reserved for only the 'right' kind couples under current laws.

Simple changes to the way we define de facto relationships in the legislation would make life fairer for thousands of same-sex couples and their families, and make it easier to access rights accorded to them under the law.

These laws are about basic personal rights and should be available to all couples and families.

2009-04-08T11:05:00.000-05:00

Amy Higgins, an LAS Career Services intern will be delivering her semester project in the form of a workshop on Thursday April 30 from 4:00-5:00 in 353 Catt. Her topic is: LGBT Graduates and the Job Search. She will address: legal issues, the job search and personal issues. You are welcome and encouraged to attend.

from today's Daily.

2009-04-06T08:49:00.001-05:00

An Awesome Day
I'm lovin' that my quote made it to the front page.

Take note of same-sex ruling, Midwest and US.
Editorial that's clear and consise. This serves as a good talking-points.

official statement from isu lgbtaa president

2009-04-03T10:52:00.003-05:00

It is a historic day not only for the lgbt community but for all Iowans. This is not a small victory, but a monumental one.

Marriage legitimizes the love and commitment of couples, same-sex or otherwise. Legally recognized marriage gives couples over a thousand rights that would otherwise not be available to them, not to mention the social equity that the word marriage gives.

As we rejoice, let us not forget those who had fought for our equality and our rights. Even in the face of adversity, we continued to live our lives with dignity and hope that someday the future would be brighter and that our goal for equality would be realized. Today, it did.

I am lucky to be alive and witness this joyous occasion. No longer will we doubt the legitimacy of our existence and the validity of our relationships.

The ISU LGBTA Alliance will continue to promote, support and advocate equality for all.

Sincerely ,
Callen Ubeda
President, ISU LGBTA Alliance

read the pdf of the court ruling here.

buttons!

2009-03-28T13:01:00.003-05:00

check out the kinsey scale and its ok with me buttons. only $1/ea. produced in limited quantity. buy one during our spring benefit, throughout awareness week, and during viesha.

2009-03-24T12:05:00.001-05:00

The ISU LGBTA Alliance will be hosting Dr. Davina Kotulski, a national speaker on Prop 8, this Thursday March 26th from 5-6 pm. Eaton Hall 1132.

Dr. Kotulski, clinical psychologist and a nationally recognized leader, speaker and writer within the marriage equality movement. Davina has been a leader in the marriage equality movement for over a decade dating back to her efforts to support the Hawaii Marriage Project, pass a pro-marriage equality initiative with Californians for Same Sex Marriage (CASSM) in 1999, and her work to defeat Prop 22, the Knight Initiative. She joined Marriage Equality USA in 2001 and began the marriage license counter actions with her wife Molly McKay. The couple joined with fellow activists to run the Marriage Equality USA California chapter and launched a pro-active effort to raise awareness for the need for equal relationship recognition for LGBT people and win marriage equality in the state of California.

Her book, Why You Should Give A Damn About Gay Marriage, is used as a teaching tool and activist handbook within progressive communities of faith, LGBT organizations, political clubs, and universities.

She will speak about Prop 8 and why it matters to everyone, not just the LGBT community. Q&A will follow.

I hope you can make it or advertise this to your students, friends, and colleagues.

2009-03-11T19:35:00.002-05:00

Hey all!

For March 25th I'm putting together a panel of people over topics such as mental health and sexual health/wellness/awareness. It's going to be an interactive panel so come with questions that you may have. So far, it looks like we may, (not for sure yet) have a representative from ACCESS and ISU Student Counseling services and possibly from Planned Parenthood. These are excellent agencies that provide terrific services to either the ISU or Ames communities. I am going to try to have some refreshments at the meeting as well.

This will be an excellent opportunity to learn more resources that are available if needed. Be sure to mark your calendars!

we want you

2009-03-05T11:36:00.003-06:00

interested in becoming a member of lgbtaa cabinet?

we are looking for candidates for all positions!

email us at alliance@iastate.edu

all candidates must

have at least a 2.0 gpa.

be a due paying member.

be able to fulfill the duties and obligations of their desired post.

for president and vice president, have served at least one semester on the lgbtaa cabinet.

engaging, fun, likable and has genuine passion for the lgbta cause.

announcements

2009-02-19T11:41:00.003-06:00

Kelly Moeller is our new Vice President. She was affirmed during last night's general assembly.

Bryce Johnson is out new Web Master.

LGBTA Student Day at the Capitol
March 4th.
Let a member of the Alliance cabinet know if you are interested in participating and we'll arrange a carpool.

Iowa Pride Network
Central GSA Coalition Meeting
Thursday March 5th. 5-7pm
Plymouth Congregational United Church of Christ- Youth Room
4126 Ingersoll Ave.
Des Moines.

Seeking lesbian and bisexual women

Are you...
A lesbian or bisexual woman?
Age 18 or older?

If this sounds like you, then we invite you to participate in a study focusing on your life experiences as a lesbian, bisexual, or queer woman. Participants will have the opportunity to enter a drawing for one of several cash prizes of $50.

The goal of the Rainbow Women’s Project is to better understand and promote the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and queer women. Results of this study will be used to improve our newly developed survey for future use in our efforts to understand identity and experiences in our communities. We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities.

This is an anonymous, web-based study run through the Department of Psychology at the University of Washington. For more information, please go to http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=furX9b2KKmEGmDeyHgb3aw_3d_3d,

or contact the Rainbow Women’s Project at wproject@u.washington.edu or (206) 543-9151. Please remember that we cannot guarantee the confidentiality of any information sent by email.

round up

2009-02-16T11:25:00.006-06:00

Read the Ames Tribune's coverage of our Valentines Kiss-Out.
Alliance president, Callen Ubeda was appointed as the state's representative for MBGLTACC's oversight committee, along with Drake University's LaCee Groetken .
ISU & Ames are preparing for MBGLTACC's return in 2012.
Pictures from MBGLTACC 09 coming soon.
Soap's first lesbian wedding. [source]

valentines kiss-out at the campanile

2009-02-06T12:58:00.001-06:00

Kiss your boyfriend. Kiss your girlfriend. Kiss your bff. Kiss your frienenemy. Kiss your significant other, or your insignificant other. Kiss someone. Kiss anyone. Kiss everyone!

We are encouraging every couple, specially our straight allies, to show their support for our marriage equality campaign.

We asked that participants wear their It's OK With Me t-shirts on this day and to gather at the Campanile at noon on Feb. 13th to kiss the one they love.

Don't have an It's OK With Me t-shirt yet? Stop by the LGBTAA Office to purchase one.

They are only $5.00!

making a difference: lgbta of central iowa

2009-02-05T09:07:00.001-06:00

Time and Place Date: Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Time: 8:00pm - 9:00pm
Location: Martin Hall 2121
City/Town: Ames, IA
Contact Info Email: alliance@iastate.edu

Please join the Alliance as we host LGBT educational, social, political, and religious groups of Ames & Des Moines to talk about what their organization and events they have planned for 2009.

Scheduled to appear:
Des Moines Pride Organization
Iowa Pride Network
Lambda Legal
Belonging
One Iowa
PFLAG Ames
Women's Cultural Collective

meet our new lgbtss coordinator

2009-02-01T23:30:00.001-06:00

Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender student services has a new coordinator who is hoping to improve an already solid program at Iowa State.

Brad Freihoefer previously worked with the LGBT center at Minnesota State University in Mankato, but starts his career at Iowa State on Monday. He said he has been working the last five years for this type of opportunity.

“For me, this is really a dream job,” Freihoefer said.

He received a bachelor’s degree in women’s studies from Minnesota State University in Mankato and worked as a sexual violence advocate, responding to crisis situations in his home county. He also served as a community adviser in the residence halls, where he said he learned a lot about leading students.

At Minnesota State, Freihoefer said he worked with the second-oldest LGBT program in the country and served as a face and name for LGBT issues on campus.

He said he hopes to make LGBT students feel more at home at Iowa State.

“I’m going to bring excitement to talk about these issues,” Freihoefer said. “I want to change the atmosphere of the LGBT student services office and make sure all students feel that they’re welcomed there.”

He said his first goal is to make sure students know where the LGBT student services office is and what they do. He said he will primarily serve as support for students, but will also be creating programs to educate people about LGBT issues.

“I want to help students, that’s what it really comes down to. Students coming out, especially, is a difficult process and I want to help students get through that process. I want to help them feel safe,” Freihoefer said.

Upon first visiting Iowa State, Freihoefer said he was impressed with the LGBT program, although there is still room for improvement. He said Iowa State’s strong foundation is thanks in part to the work of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Ally Alliance and a supportive faculty and staff.

“That’s one thing I noticed when I was coming in for the interview. There’s really been support for this position and support for LGBT issues,” Freihoefer said. “That’s really helpful, I’m really excited to work with a population that is welcoming — and even for those who may not be, I’m willing to engage in conversations.”

He said he moved to Ames over the weekend, and because he grew up in rural Wisconsin and has spent the last five years in rural Minnesota, should feel right at home at Iowa State.

“From what I’ve seen of the Ames community and Iowa State campus, I’m going to fit right in. I’m looking forward to it,” he said.

Freihoefer invites any students to meet with him and introduce themselves at the LGBT student services office, located in the first floor of the Student Services building.

“Even though this is an LGBT-specific position, I’m here for all students, regardless of their race, class, gender, sexuality or ability level,” Freihoefer said. “I think we’re all going to try to grow together.”

mbgltacc info

2009-01-28T21:24:00.000-06:00

If you are interested in attending the MBGLTACC 09, please let us know no later than Friday, January 28th. Space are limited and it is on a first come first serve basis (assuming that you've met the initial requirements: must be due paying member and in good academic standing).

Just a reminder that if you haven't made your payment for the conference, please stop by the office tomorrow or Friday to drop off your payment.

Office hours are:
Thursday 10-12:30 and Friday noon-3:00

textbook rebate!

2009-01-24T11:17:00.001-06:00

Important message from the president of GSB:

Iowa State Students,

This is another reminder that the Iowa Department of Revenue offers tax rebates on all books purchased at the University Book Store for up to three years from the date of purchase. To receive your rebate, please save your receipt and go to www.gsb.iastate.edu/tax to download forms and instructions to receive your rebate. The receipt from your purchases will need to be included with the forms that are being sent in. This rebate, which will be sent
6-8 weeks after submission, will save you approximately seven percent on your purchase.

This year, the Government of the Student Body and ISU Ambassadors are working with State legislators on proposals to help you save even more on textbooks. GSB is continually aware of the high expenses of education, and we will be working on other proposals to help students. Feedback is always welcome and appreciated.
Please contact your representatives at http://www.gsb.iastate.edu with any concerns.

Have a great semester!

Daniel Fischer
President
Government of the Student Body

alliance sub groups

2009-01-22T11:20:00.001-06:00

Gay/Bi Men's Group
Sunday Nights at 6:30-8:00 PM
Sloss House

Gay/Bi Men's Group is your chance to just chill with other gay, bi, and questioning men at Iowa State University. Join facilitators Zack Ford and Clayton Johnson for relaxing evenings of conversation about life and culture.

The group is very loose and flexible, so come and go as you're able! We talk about whatever is on the minds of the group, whether it's television, movies, news, politics, LGBT issues, or just personal issues that individuals want to discuss. You get to just be yourself and connect with others who have similar experiences.

Lez Bi Real
Wednesday 5:00-7:00PM
Sloss House

These meetings are your chance to socialize with other lesbian, bi, queer, and questioning women in a casual setting. The purpose of this group is to provide confidential, unqualified support in an atmosphere that feels safe for asking questions and sharing stories, and to make time for a bit of socializing.

Iowa Gay-Straight Alliance Day

2009-01-21T21:49:00.002-06:00

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Iowa GSA Day is a day which is meant to honor of the students, teachers, community members and organizations that have shown their dedication for keeping all students safe, and insuring a quality education for all, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. For more information please visit our website: http://www.iowapridenetwork.org/

GSA DAY KICK-OFF PARTY

Wednesday, January 27th - 5-7pm

Ritual Cafe - Des Moines

To celebrate this amazing day Iowa Pride Network will be holding a GSA Day kick-off party on Tuesday, January 27, 2009 in honor of Iowa's Gay-Straight Alliances! The party will be held from 5-7pm at Ritual Cafe, located on 13th St. between Locust & Grand--Downtown Des Moines. Food and beverages will be provided. All students, parents, teachers, and faculty advisors are welcome to attend! Iowa's Lt. Governor, Patty Judge has been invited to this event, as well as the local Des Moines press to interview students about their plans for GSA day 2009!

EQUALITY ON CAMPUS DAY - JAN 27!

2009-01-21T10:00:00.000-06:00

STUDENTS ACROSS THE COUNTRY JOIN TOGETHER IN THE HUMAN RIGHTS MOVEMENT TOWARDS LGBT EQUALITY.

On January 27th, 2009, high school and college students across the country will participate in "Equality on Campus Day" by wearing the same shirt to school as a way to show unity within the community in the fight towards LGBT equality, particularly marriage equality. This is a visibility/fundraiser event geared towards achieving the following goals:

* Get students more involved in the fight towards LGBT equality.
* Raise the visibility of the LGBT movement towards equality by having everyone wear the same shirt on the same day.
* Have the event one week after the inauguration to remind Obama that we are not going away. We are expecting him to address same-sex marriage, and LGBT rights in general.
* Raise money towards fighting for the legalization of same-sex marriage in the courts.

Students for Equality , who is organizing Equality on Campus Day, will be donating a portion of the proceeds to Lambda Legal since they are currently fighting the state of California to repeal Proposition 8. Lambda Legal has also fought for LGBT equality in many other cases, including overturning sodomy laws in the United States on a federal level. To see more landmark cases fought by Lambda Legal, go to http://www.lambdalegal.org/our-work/in-court/cases/landmark-cases.html.

2009-01-20T08:53:00.001-06:00

For the first time in history, The Lesbian and Gay Band Association (LGBA), a musical organization comprised of marching and concert bands from across the United States and around the world, has been chosen to perform in the parade for the inauguration. Again, this is the first time in history that a lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender group will march in a Presidential Inaugural Parade.

The 177-piece LGBT band will join groups from across the country as well as from the Armed Forces in the historic parade down Pennsylvania Avenue, which follows President-elect Barack Obama’s swearing-in ceremony on the steps of the Capitol.

“I am honored to invite these talented groups and individuals to participate in the Inaugural Parade,” Obama said in a news release. “These organizations embody the best of our nation’s history, diversity, and commitment to service. Vice President-elect (Joe) Biden and I are proud to have them join us in the parade.”

message from the president

2009-01-13T16:36:00.004-06:00

Hello Cyclones,

Whether it’s the economy, the presidential polls, the Olympics, showbiz, etc. there is no denying that 2008 was a year of highs and lows. All the trials, tribulations, tragedies and triumphs of this past year reminded me that despite our fundamental differences, we all share the same basic hopes and fears. We want to be accepted, to be understood, and most importantly to be loved.

I hope that you’ll be able to join us at the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Ally Alliance meetings and events this semester. During this exciting time we are focused on creating the changes that we need in order to eliminate hate, fight homophobia, and to create a safe and supporting environment for everyone—gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or ally.

Join us this Saturday January 17th as we co-present Leslie & The Ly’s at the M-Shop. The show starts at 9pm.

Stop by at our table at Club Fest II on January 21st from 5-9pm.

As always, the ISU LGBTA Alliance meetings are on Wednesday nights at 8pm in Martin Hall 2121. Come as you are. Everyone is welcome. Our first meeting is on January 21st.

Welcome back, and best of luck in 2009!

Sincerely,
Callen Ubeda
President ISU LGBTA Alliance

2009-01-04T21:29:00.002-06:00

Only 8 days left before Spring semester starts. Don't forget that our first general assembly will be on Jan 21st (that's the Wednesday after the first week of classes). As a preview of what we're doing for the reminder of the year, check out the Leslie Hall concert at the M-Shop that the Alliance is co-sponsoring on Jan 17th.

Ames PFLAG

2008-12-08T13:35:00.003-06:00

You are invited to attend the Ames PFLAG meeting.
(Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)

Everyone is welcome, confidentiality is required.

Ames PFLAG chapter meeting:
Tuesday, December 9, 7:00 PM

Youth and Shelter Services Offices
420 Kellogg Avenue
Ames, IA
515-291-0817 for more details

PFLAG's Mission: PFLAG promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends through: support, to cope with an adverse society; education, to enlighten an ill-informed public; and advocacy, to end discrimination and to secure equal civil rights. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays provides opportunity for dialogue about sexual orientation and gender identity, and acts to create a society that is healthy and respectful of human diversity.

community calendar

2008-12-07T18:45:00.003-06:00

Our Story Movie Premiere (Des Moines)
Public premiere of One Iowa's short film featuring Iowans speaking out in favor of marriage for gay and lesbian couples. Appetizers provided.
Monday, December 8, 6:30pm-8:00pm
Fleur Cinema and Cafe, 4545 Fleur Drive, Des Moines

Oral Arguments before the Supreme Court, Varnum v. Brien (Des Moines)
Given the interest in the case and limited capacity, we anticipate that there will not be enough seating for everyone in the Supreme Court chamber. To accommodate growing interest from our supporters, One Iowa has planned several “watch parties” across the state!
Tuesday, December 9, 2008 - 9:45 – 11:30 AM
Des Moines Watch Party - Des Moines Public Library, 1000 Grand Avenue
Ames Watch Party - ISU Memorial Union, Gallery Room (3rd Floor), 2229 Lincoln Way
Iowa City Watch Party - Iowa City Public Library, 123 South Linn

Making the Case Receptions
Reception to celebrate and discuss the oral arguments before the Iowa Supreme Court in the landmark Varnum v. Brien case.

Tuesday, December 9, 6:30pm-8:00pm
Pappajohn Center, 1200 Grand Ave, Des Moines

Wednesday, December 10, 6:30pm-7:30pm
CSPS/Legion Arts, 1103 3rd St SE, Cedar Rapids

Thursday, December 11, 6:30pm-7:30pm
Davenport Unitarian Church, 3707 Eastern Ave, Davenport

Monday, December 15, 6:30pm-7:30pm
St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 22 Dillman, Council Bluffs

Tuesday, December 16, 6:30pm-7:30pm
Sioux City Public Library, Gleeson Room, 529 Pierce St, Sioux City

Day Without a Gay Volunteer events (Des Moines, tbd)
On December 10th thousands of allies and supporters of LGBT equality will be taking the day off to volunteer for fairness and equality!

One Iowa will be hosting a volunteer day at our headquarters in Des Moines and will be working to organize volunteer events across Iowa. If you would like to lead a volunteer effort in your area by opening your home or business please contact us at organize@oneiowa.org.
RSVP here.

Monday Update

2008-12-01T14:35:00.010-06:00

This is the first attempt for my weekly post. I will try to cover things that are relevant to Ames and surrounding areas from a lez perspective with the purpose of keeping myself informed.

Events:

Alliance Meeting
Wednesday December 3, 2008
8 pm, 2121 Martin Hall, Iowa State
Our last meeting for the semester will be a holiday party.

Iowa Pride Network

Thursday December 4, 2008
5-7 pm, Plymouth Congregational United Church of Christ - Youth Room
4126 Ingersoll Ave, Des Moines, IA (Corner of Ingersoll & 42nd St.)
This is the monthly Central GSA Coalition

Des Moines Pride

Thursday December 4, 2008
6:30-8 pm, Central Library, meeting room # 3, in Downtown Des Moines.
Capital City Pride would like to extend an invitation to the community to come meet the group and get involved in the planning process for PrideFest 2009!

Entertainment:

So I just heard about bitch slap, and I totally want to see this movie. Here is the trailer:

I know some of you may think oh great a b-action movie but I love action films and how can I not get excited about an action film that involves a girl/girl “love” scene. I can’t wait.

Yes this entry is a little short, I’m just getting the feel out of it, I think I need a better title. But I'll try to keep you posted on things that we can see, hear, or should know if we are in Iowa.

2008-11-19T20:34:00.001-06:00

We have affirmed the nominations for our Spring 2009 cabinet!

2008-11-18T09:54:00.002-06:00

Vote on Nov. 19th for new LGBTAA leadership.

This is one G.A. that you can not miss.

We're voting on all cabinet position.

All due paying members must attend.

You can still run for all position.*

[for president and vp, you must have previously serve in the cabinet to be eligible for nomination].

Halloween Party Pictures

2008-11-14T12:24:00.006-06:00

Harry Potter made a special appearance.

Kadaj from Final Fantasy: Advent Children had to drop by.

Professor Scott wanted to check on his performance in the film.

Some more people in awesome costumes.

A beautiful vixen dropped in.

A vixen with a scythe . . . what can be better?

The cave man had been thawed.

Dr. Lotta Vag was ready for the exam.

National Coming Out Day 2008 Pictures

2008-11-14T12:15:00.004-06:00

Preparing during the week by selling shirts and telling people about the rally.

Selling shirts and setting the area up for the rally.

Listening and sharing coming out stories at the rally.

Ice Cream Social Pictures!

2008-11-14T12:04:00.003-06:00

The crowds gathering for those sweet, cold confections!

A groups of students socializing with their treats of choice.

Callen encouraging students to sign up for the mailing list, pick up brochures and grab a name tag.

Terri trying to sell the previous years shirts to new students.

A group socializing.

Greeting the mascot of the event.

Students socializing.

2008-11-10T20:48:00.001-06:00

The campus ministry associate at the Wesley Foundation will be putting together a Silent Vigil For LGBT rights on Wednesday November 12th @5:30pm by Lake LaVerne.

Conference Information!

2008-11-10T17:36:00.005-06:00

I've finally fallen onto this bandwagon. I'll be blogging randomly for the rest of the semester, which sadly isn't too long now.

I just wanted to let everyone know about the conferences coming up. I already have a list of individuals that are more than willing to hear more. If you want to know more, you have to let me know! You can tell anyone on cabinet and we'll be sure to get the information to you. What are these conferences you may be asking. Well, they're a place to gather new ideas for ice breakers and other activities that you can perform to create a variety of outcomes. MBLGTACC is the main conference we attend. It will be held in Bloomington, Indiana this year, which is a bit of a drive but it is well worth it. This conference will run from February 13 to February 15. You will never believe the amount of amazing people you can connect with and the sheer amount of new ideas you will come back with unless you attend.

The other conference is the NGLTF Creating Change conference is a more professional conference. This conference is geared more towards students closer to graduation that are looking to network with potential employees and gain that little advantage in the working world. This conference is going to be held in Denver this year from January 28 to February 1.

Registration is open for both conferences now, so if you'd like to attend one without our group, you are more than welcome to sign up for yourself. MBLGTACC can be found at this site and the Creating Change conference can be found at this site. Feel free to look around the sites for more information about each conference and come to us with questions you may have. We are always here to chat whenever you need it!

prop h8

2008-11-06T13:36:00.003-06:00

So, the state of California voted for a state constitutional amendment that would ban same-sex marriage. The 52% support for it was surprising for me, specially since California is known for being a liberal state. It is indeed heart breaking. I know a lot of people were angered by the results. It seemed so unfair.

As Political Science major, I can see both sides of the argument. Proponents of Prop 8 claims that it is not about denying rights to same-sex couples, but rather, protecting the will of the people, as Newt Gingrinch described in this advert:

Even though I can see where he was coming from, I also know that in recent history, we have made laws that protects the minority from the tyrannical majority. Even though the result in California showed the will of the people, I don't see how denying someone their rights could be constitutional. And this amendment, is so obviously discriminatory on its face that it doesn't even require a strict scrutiny. Regardless of how they tried to mask this, discrimination is discrimination.

I know some people would say, "why don't the gays just call marriage something else, then there wouldn't be any issues."

Well, the way I understand it, because the states use the word marriage in their statute, and certain rights and privileges are attached to word marriage, if the gays use a different word to describe their union, then they don't get the rights that people who are allowed to use the word marriage would normally have.

And because the proponents of Prop 8 want the word marriage to only be defined as union between a man and woman, same-sex couples are not allowed to use that word. Hence, they don't get the benefits.

Sucks, doesn't it?

2008-11-02T16:05:00.000-06:00

coming out

2008-10-22T10:16:00.006-05:00

Earlier this month, we celebrated national coming out day. During our rally at the free speech zone, I shared my own coming out story, or the lack thereof. You see, the choice of coming out on my own was taken away from me. It wasn't in my own terms and I still feel violated whenever I think about it. I will not go on with the details of my coming out process, I mean... it is after all a never ending process. But it got me thinking about others out there who were forced to come out, or were outed by someone else.

I was just wondering, in the matter of coming out of the closet, are we helping the cause when we push someone out of the closet? Or are we hindering it? Under what circumstances is this ethically permissible? If you are dating someone who's still in the closet, should you demand them to come out? Or say, you're a public figure, does everyone need to know what your sexuality is?

I'd like to know your opinions on these. Type your response by clicking on the comments section bellow this post.

2008-10-20T13:46:00.001-05:00

Auditions for ISU Got Talent! has indefinitely been postponed.

We will keep you updated on any developments regarding our fall benefit show.

wtf?

2008-10-20T01:26:00.002-05:00

Because, as you know, preventing kids from learning about tolerance is the
surefire way to ensure everyone turns or stays heterosexual.

A plan to have an acclaimed gay author speak to students in Charlotte County high schools has been scrapped after a few parents objected.

Alex Sanchez writes books about gay youth and their struggle to find acceptance, but local school principals were not comfortable allowing him to address their students.

Jay Remer, spokesman for the Charlotte County Rainbow Support Group, said Sanchez is a terrific public speaker whose message is about tolerance.

He said Sanchez’s mission is “to help the gay youth in the community to feel less isolated and more part of the community as a whole.”

Remer’s group is one of the sponsors bringing Sanchez, who lives in Florida, to New Brunswick.

"The idea was to try and have an audience of maybe as many as 1,500 students," Remer said.

But Sanchez won’t be able to spread his message in School District 10 because some parents have pressured principals, he said.

Keith Pierce, District 10 superintendent, said he changed his mind about allowing the author to speak in area schools after meeting with school principals.

"A few of them were getting pressure from a few parents, and they just weren’t comfortable going in that direction," Pierce said.

Some principals felt their schools were just “not ready” for the kind of presentation that Sanchez will give, he said.

In 2002, the American Library Association named Sanchez’s book Rainbow Boys to the list of Best Books for Young Adults.

Sanchez is still coming to New Brunswick. He will give a presentation at Wesley United Church in St. Andrews

AUDITION!

2008-10-16T17:29:00.002-05:00

We will be holding an audition for our fall benefit talent show on Tuesday, Oct 21st. Eaton Hall 1132 from 6-9pm.

The fall benefit show will be on Nov. 14, 2008 at the M-Shop. 7 pm.

Please consider the limitations of our venue before you audition.

Email us at alliance@iastate.edu for more info.

what we did and what we're doing

2008-10-12T11:40:00.003-05:00

video clip from our fall 2007 & spring 2008 benefit shows.

Don't forget our Fall 2008 benefit show. We will be holding an audition on Tuesday Oct. 21st. Martin Hall 2121. 6-9pm.

WOO HOO!!

2008-10-10T12:16:00.000-05:00

October 10, 2008

Connecticut Supreme Court Sides with Equality, Grants Equal Marriage!

Dear Families and Friends,

At 11:30am this morning, the Connecticut Supreme Court issued its ruling in Kerrigan v. Commissioner of Public Health, the equal marriage case. In short, we won. I would personally like to thank Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD) and Love Makes a Family for their leadership in this case and on marriage equality in Connecticut.

On this historic day, we should take time to celebrate as a national community of LGBT families. Call your friends and family. Tell them what marriage equality means to you. If you live in Connecticut, join with other families at the state house this evening at 5:30pm for a victory rally! Understand that marriage equality in Connecticut puts us that much closer to marriage equality everywhere. This is truly a great day for our families.

This is also a day to remember the important battles we're fighting in other states. On Election Day voters in California, Arizona and Florida will decide whether to change their constitutions to prohibit you and your loved ones from getting married. In Arkansas, voters will decide whether to ban all unmarried couples, including gay and lesbian couples, from fostering or adopting children.

We're working day in and day out to defeat these terrible amendments, and we need your help.

Now is the time for LGBT families in all states to draw the line in the sand on the attacks against our community. Say NO to further restrictions on our families' ability to care for each other by contributing to one or all of these important ballot campaigns right now. If you can afford to give to each campaign, please do. If one state is most important to you, give to that campaign. Whatever and however you decide to give, just know that that our families have so much at stake in this election.

Your contribution today could decide whether we're advancing positive legislation for our families in the future or continuing to spend precious time and resources fighting off these horrendous attacks.

To contribute to defeating the marriage ban in California, click here.
To contribute to defeating the marriage ban in Florida, click here.
To contribute to defeating the marriage ban in Arizona, click here.
To contribute to defeating the foster/adoption ban in Arkansas, click here.

In these unstable times, your family's contribution is profoundly appreciate

Sincerely,

Jennifer Chrisler,
Executive Director, Family Equality Council

P.S. Tomorrow night is Family Equality Council's National Awards Dinner at the Petersen Automotive Museum in Los Angeles. As we celebrate the growth and impact of LGBT families and Family Equality Council nationally, I would love to share with our honorees, HBO and the Pop Luck Club, and our featured guest, Cynthia Nixon not only the news about Connecticut, but the fact that our families responded to this call and contributed to secure equality in these four critical states. Give what you can to move our families forward!

National Coming Out Day

2008-10-10T09:03:00.001-05:00

Rally!

2008-10-10T08:53:00.003-05:00

END THE SILENCE

It's Ok With Me Rally
TODAY
11-1
Free Speech Zone
Parks Library Lawn
Wear your shirts and be ready to tell your story!
Bring friends!

knock it off!

2008-10-09T17:00:00.002-05:00

As Mike mentioned in the previous post, the Ad Council launched a new campaign seeking to end the use of homophobic language.

Here's one featuring Hilary Duff.

Ad council seeks to end homophobic language

2008-10-09T09:42:00.004-05:00

A Push to Curb the Casual Use of Ugly Phrases

By STUART ELLIOTT

Published: October 7, 2008

FOR the first time since the Advertising Council was founded in 1942, the organization — which directs and coordinates public service campaigns on behalf of Madison Avenue and the media industry — is introducing ads meant to tackle a social issue of concern to gays and lesbians.

A commercial featuring the comedian Wanda Sykes, left, is intended to discourage the use of the word “gay” in a derogatory way.

The Advertising Council’s campaign, on behalf of the organization Glsen, will include a Web site, thinkb4youspeak.com.

The campaign, which is scheduled to be announced by the council in Washington on Wednesday, will seek to discourage bullying and harassment of teenagers who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.

The campaign, created pro bono by the New York office of Arnold Worldwide, urges an end to using derogatory language, particularly labeling anything deemed negative or unpleasant as “so gay.” That is underlined by the theme of the campaign: “When you say, ‘That’s so gay,’ do you realize what you say? Knock it off.”

There will be television and radio commercials, print and outdoor ads and a special Web site devoted to the campaign (thinkb4youspeak.com). Some spots feature celebrities, the young actress Hilary Duff and the comedian Wanda Sykes, delivering the message.

The campaign is on behalf of a nonprofit organization in New York called the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, or Glsen (pronounced glisten), which promotes tolerance among students. Glsen is spending about $2 million to develop and produce the campaign.

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The introduction of the campaign will be accompanied by Glsen’s release of the 2007 edition of an annual report, the National School Climate Survey. The survey will report that 9 in 10 teenagers who are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender said they were verbally harassed during the last school year. Almost half said they were also physically harassed because of their sexual orientation.

The campaign is “something I dreamed about for 10 years,” said Kevin Jennings, the founder and executive director at Glsen, and has been in active development for two years.

“If you follow hateful language, you eventually get hurtful behavior,” he added. “The chain of events begins with kids learning it’s O.K. to disrespect people.”

The campaign is “a very bold step” on the part of the council, Mr. Jennings said, in that “this will be, by a million miles, the largest public education campaign on L.G.B.T. issues.”

“I think they know they’re going to take some flak,” he added, referring to the leadership of the council.

Peggy Conlon, the president and chief executive of the council, said she did not believe, however, that there would be negative reaction.

“Before Glsen made the investment, we agreed we would poll the media community,” Ms. Conlon said, to determine how receptive outlets like newspapers, magazines, television and radio stations and Web sites would be to run such ads.

In conversations with public service directors — the staff members at media outlets who help determine which pro bono campaigns run — “a very small percentage said they would not run the work,” she said, “not because it was ‘radioactive,’ but because they thought it was not appropriate for their target audience,” which may be older than those to whom the campaign is addressed.

As for this being the first campaign under the aegis of the council to tackle discrimination against gays and lesbians, Ms. Conlon said, “we always had dialogue with that community,” which had been “focused on a different issue,” AIDS prevention.

“We’re always looking for important messages on discrimination,” she said. “We thought this would be a fabulous campaign to take on because it’s surprising how pervasive this language is.”

The council has presented antidiscrimination campaigns like “A mind is a terrible thing to waste,” for the United Negro College Fund, and ads promoting gender equality (“Expect the best from a girl and that’s what you’ll get”).

In the commercial featuring Ms. Sykes, three teenage boys at a pizzeria are making fun of a silly statue of a pizza chef. One says, “That’s so gay, really gay,” to which Ms. Sykes replies, “Please don’t say that,” and then asks how he would like it if she were to say something she disliked was “so ‘16-year-old boy with a cheesy mustache.’ ”

Some print ads are taking a similar tack. “That’s so ‘Jock who can complete a pass but not a sentence,’ ” one headline reads. Another says, “That’s so ‘Gamer guy who has more video games than friends.’ ” The ads end this way: “Think that’s mean? How do you think ‘That’s so gay’ sounds? Hurtful. So, knock it off.”

It is a tricky task to create a campaign that speaks to young people in a tone they do not deem patronizing or condescending. To accomplish that, the campaign was researched and tested with the intended audience.

“Kids that age are tough and media savvy; they see through things quickly,” said John Staffen, chief creative officer at Arnold N.Y.C., part of the Arnold Worldwide unit of Havas.

As a result, “you can’t be too preachy,” he added, “and you can’t sell too hard.”

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So the goal was “to show the situation in a new light,” Mr. Staffen said, “to point out this language can be hurtful and let the kids make their own decisions.”

“Ultimately, we believe they will make the right decision,” he added.

Two students who were shown the ads to elicit their reactions praised the approach.

“These ads do a great job of making you stop and think,” said David Aponte, 16, a junior at Battlefield High School in Haymarket, Va., who described himself as a “straight ally” of Glsen and other organizations doing similar work. “I think people could connect to them,” he added.

Lynnette Schweimler, 17, a senior at Thunderridge High School in Highlands Ranch, Colo., said she hoped the campaign would “open people’s eyes a little bit.”

Ms. Schweimler said that when she was attacked last year by assailants who singled her out for being a lesbian, “they used a lot of derogatory language.”

The repeating of such language “builds up intolerance,” she said, because “it’s used so often, people don’t understand the meaning of it.

T-SHIRT DISTRIBUTION

2008-10-08T08:04:00.003-05:00

It's OK with Me
T-Shirt distribution
Tuesday-Thursday
10-2
At Stairs near West Student Office Space
Iowa State Memorial Union

Presidential Debate

2008-10-07T17:38:00.003-05:00

The second debate between presidential candidates Barack Obama and John McCain is tonight at 8p on all major news networks. Please tune in and make an informed decision this election!

National Coming Out Week

2008-10-07T17:34:00.002-05:00

LGBT History Month

2008-10-07T17:18:00.003-05:00

Remembering Matthew Shepard-10 Years Later

2008-10-07T12:54:00.003-05:00

The following article was posted today on lesbiatopia.com by Renee Gannon.

Ten years ago from today, October 7, 2008, Laramie Police Dept. Officer Reggie Fluty went to the scene reported by a bicycle rider - a young man tied to a fence and obviously beaten very badly. Her words in the Laramie Project - that "the only part of his face not covered in blood were where he had been crying" are one of the most saddening and tragic moments in GLBTQI history. This was the day Matthew Shepard was found.

I wanted to post this for everyone as a 10-year memorial to the discovery of Matt, who was in a coma at the time of discovery, but also to everyone else who has been a vitcim of hate and violence.

Matthew Shepard was a good kid. He was the oldest son of Dennis Shepard and Judy Shepard. He attended Crest Hill Elementary School, Dean Morgan Junior High, and the first two years of high school at Natrona County High School. He was a member of St. Mark's Episcopal Church. Shepard spent his junior and senior years of high school at The American School In Switzerland. After graduating in 1995, he attended Catawba College and Casper College before he relocated to Denver. Shepard then became a first-year political science major at the University of Wyoming and was chosen as the student representative for the Wyoming Environmental Council.

He was described by his parents and good close friend from Orlando, Florida, Frankie J. McGraw, as "...an optimistic and accepting young man ...[who]... had a special gift of relating to almost everyone. He was the type of person that was very approachable and always looked to new challenges. Matthew had a great passion for equality and always stood up for the acceptance of people's differences."

The two men who attacked Matthew Shepard, Henderson and McKinney, were not charged with a hate crime, as no Wyoming criminal statute provided for such a charge. The disturbing and brutal nature of Matthew Shepard's murder prompted calls for new legislation addressing hate crime, urged particularly by those who believed that Shepard was targeted on the basis of his sexual orientation. Under current United States federal law and Wyoming state lawcrimes committed on the basis of sexual orientation are not prosecutable as hate crimes.

In the following session of the Wyoming Legislature, a bill was introduced defining certain attacks motivated by victim identity as hate crimes, but the measure failed on a 30-30 tie in the Wyoming House of Representatives.

At the federal level, then-President Bill Clinton renewed attempts to extend federal hate crime legislation to include gay and lesbian individuals, women, and people with disabilities. These efforts were rejected by the United States House of Representatives in 1999. In 2000, both houses of Congress passed such legislation, but it was stripped out in conference committee.

On March 20, 2007, the Matthew Shepard Act (HR 1592) was introduced as federal bipartisan legislation in the U.S. Congress, sponsored by Democrat John Conyers with 171 co-sponsors. Matthew's parents, Judy and Dennis, were present at the introduction ceremony. The bill passed the House of Representatives on May 3, 2007. Ultimately, the amendment was dropped by the Democratic leadership because of opposition from antiwar Democrats, conservative groups, and President George W. Bush.

Please use this article as a reminder that we are still very far from receiving equal rights and equal protections in this country. The fact that there still is not a national law protecting our community from hate and violence perpetuated by our own sexuality and gender identities is not only disheartening but frustrating too.

How many others out there do you think have been a victim of a hate crime whose perpetrators didn't receive the justice they deserved? How many people do you know personally that have been a victim of some kind of hate crime, attack or slur? When is enough, enough?

This is an extremely big election and I urge each and every one of you to stay educated on the issues involved in this election. Barack Obama supports expanding federal hate crimes to include sexual orientation/gender identity and he might be our only hope to finally get the national protection we deserve. Let's do it for Matthew Shepard. Let's do it for all the innocent victims whose attacks have gone unnoticed or unreported time after time. Let's do it for ourselves.

2008-10-07T00:00:00.000-05:00

The LGBTA Alliance proudly presents...

ISU Got Talent

a variety show/ talent contest extravaganza!

Featuring the talents of ISU students.

Cash prizes for the winning act.

Auditions will be held on Oct. 21st from 6-9pm at Martin Hall 2121.

email us at alliance@iastate.edu for more information.

National Coming Out Week

2008-10-06T11:30:00.001-05:00

Oct. 6th-Oct 10th.

It's OK With Me t-shirt distribution.
Oct 7th-10th. 10am-2pm at the Memorial Union (by the stairs close to the MShop and the West Student Office Spaces).

$8.00 for due paying members.
$10.00 for general public.

2008-10-02T13:00:00.002-05:00

ISU,
do you have talent?

Stay tuned.

2008-10-01T14:19:00.002-05:00

on our next G.A.

2008-09-29T14:37:00.005-05:00

LGBTA Alliance presents:

SEX TALK and BLOW POPS!

Our Graduate Adviser, Erin Chapman, along with a graduate assistant from the Wellness Center, will answer your questions about sexual health, sex, std, and protections, among others.

If you have any questions, please leave a comment.

This Wednesday. 8pm. Martin 2121.

2008-09-29T10:31:00.001-05:00

Multicultural Student Services

College of Liberal Arts and Sciences

Invites you to attend

An Open House at our new location

Enjoy Cake and Punch

Enter to win a $25 Gift Card to ISU Bookstore

107 Catt Hall

Monday, September 29, 2008

2 to 4 p.m.

tonight at 7pm!

2008-09-28T13:09:00.001-05:00

Should Gay Rights Prevail Over Traditional Biblical Sexual Ethics?
A Debate: Jan Mickelson and Hector Avalos

Jan Mickelson of WHO's "Mickelson in the Morning" is a talk show host who covers a range of controversial topics from city and state government to entertainment
and educational issues. He was named one of the 100 Most Important Radio Talk Show Hosts in America, 1997, by Talkers Magazine.

Hector Avalos is a professor of religious studies at Iowa State University whose books include The End of Biblical Studies and Fighting Words: The Origins of Religious Violence. He received a Master of Theological Studies from the Harvard Divinity School and a doctorate
in biblical studies at Harvard.

7:00 PM @ Sun Room, Memorial Union

Update!

2008-09-25T12:28:00.002-05:00

It's OK With Me T-shirts will only be available in sizes: small-xxl.

XXXL sizes are not available. Sorry for the inconvenience.

the way i see it...

2008-09-24T14:49:00.002-05:00

America's Next Top Model has reruns on Sunday nights.
Project Runway has an encore at 10pm.

So there should be no reason why you would miss the ISU LGBTA Alliance General Assembly on Wednesday nights at 8pm. Martin Hall 2121.

2008-09-22T10:53:00.004-05:00

It's OK With Me 2008 t-shirt campaign. Just in time for National Coming Out Day (Oct. 11th).

Color: Blue. Sizes: Small-XXL.

Price: $8.00 for student members. or $10.00 for non members/non students.

Pre-order your shirts now!

email us at itsokwithmeisu@gmail.com with your info (name, size, quantity).
stop by our office: Office L in the East Student Office Space of the Memorial Union.
or come and see us during our general assembly on Wednesday at 8pm. Martin Hall 2121.

Limited quantity of previous years t-shirts are still available!
2006 t-shirt in yellow. medium & large. only $2.00
2007 t-shirt in green. small, medium, xl & xxl. only $3.00

OMG. What a deal!

LGBTA Alliance Membership Loan

2008-09-18T15:35:00.002-05:00

Can't afford the Alliance membership right now?

Through a generous donation, the ISU LGBTA Alliance is offering a membership loan that is to be paid-forward in the following ways:

Volunteering for a DIFFERENT organization for at least two(2) hours and represting one's self as a member of the LGBTA Alliance.
Paying for the membership for someone , who OTHERWISE would not have joined.
Paying for the admission to an Alliance event for someone, who OTHERWISE would not have attended.
A future donation of at least $10 to the Alliance without anything in return.
Some other action that benefits the LGBTA Alliance and is worth about 10 bucks.

For more information please see a member of the LGBTA Alliance cabinet, or stop by our office that East Student Office spaces in the Memorial Union.

*The ISU LGBTA Alliance is not responsible for the stipulations of these loan. Repayment is based on the honor system.

2007 It's OK With Me t-shirt clearance sale!

2008-09-16T15:55:00.007-05:00

They're only $3.00 each!

Color: kelly green
Sizes: Small-XXL

Please stop by our office -- Office L in the East Student Office Space of the Memorial Union.
You may also e-mail itsokwithmeisu@gmail.com with special pick-up requests.

They make great gifts!

textbook rebate!

2008-09-07T10:35:00.002-05:00

The Iowa Department of Revenue offers tax rebates on all books purchased at the University Book Store. To receive your rebate, please go to www.gsb.iastate.edu/tax to download forms and instructions. The receipt from your purchases will need to be included with the forms that are being sent in. The overall Iowa tax rate is seven percent, so this rebate will save you approximately seven percent on your purchase.

The Government of the Student Body is very concerned with the high debt levels of Iowa State students, and would like to help in any way possible. Please contact your representatives at http://www.gsb.iastate.edu with any concerns.

2008-09-04T00:46:00.005-05:00

Questions? Comments? Concerns? Suggestions?

...about last nights meeting or anything in particular. Leave it in the comments section. It can be as completely anonymous as you want it to be.

We're also on Twitter now. Check it out on the sidebar!

ANTM's transgendered contestant

2008-09-03T19:00:00.000-05:00

One of the 14 girls who will compete on the new season of America's Next Top Model – which returns to The CW on September 3 – is transgender.

"My cards were dealt differently," Isis, a 22-year-old former receptionist, tells Us Weekly exclusively in its new issue, on newsstands now.

Hailing from Prince George's County, Maryland, Isis identifies herself as "a woman born physically male."

Will she be a role model?

"I like to help people, but I'm here to follow my dreams," she tells Us.

The inclusion of Isis is being hailed by GLAAD president Neil Giuliano as "an unprecedented opportunity for a community that is underrepresented on television.

"We applaud Tyra Banks and The CW for making this historic visibility of transgender people possible," Giuliano said.

techie stuff

2008-09-03T01:30:00.003-05:00

What am I doing up at 1:30 am on a school night?

I'm happy to announce that our website has finally been updated! It's nothing fancy, just some general information and whatnot. I can not believe that I actually learned how use Filezila, Kerberos and NVu! Updating a website is nothing like maintaining a blog, there are so much more involved in it. Hopefully we'll find someone else to do it in the future, or switch to something a little less rigorous. Also, we have been informed that we had some issues with our email. If you have attempted to email us over the summer, we sincerely apologize for not responding-- we didn't get the emails. But feel free to post a comment on here, and we'll be sure to address any of your issues, questions or concerns.

Speaking of emails, our president, Terri, just informed us that techie peeps over in Durham Hall drooped the ball in sending our "Big Gay E-Mail" (it's our once a semester, campus-wide email announcing our general assembly meetings). This sucked cause the meeting is tonight, and we already paid them for the service that they failed to provide. (Yes, it cost money to spam... I mean, advertise.)

But if you are reading this prior to tonight's (Sept 3rd) meeting, please spread the word and let everyone know who might be interested.

In the meantime, I'll leave you with this rather creepy video from Daft Funk: Technologic.

Update 8:30 am. The emails were finally sent out! It's a little later than what we would have wanted, but I suppose it serves it purpose. It is entirely possible that they may have processed the email on time, but due to some techie bureaucracy, it didn't come out in a timely manner. Fiber optics and broadband stuff seems to have a mind of its own. (Ha! It sounded like I KNOW what I'm talking about.)

So I would like to issue a mea culpa to the techie peeps over at Durham Hall. I'm sure you tried your best.

we all walk in different shoes

2008-08-26T20:28:00.007-05:00

While flipping through the most recent issue of Vanity Fair [the one with my new favorite celebrity, France's first lady, Carla Bruni], I came across one of Kenneth Cole's new advert.

In his current fashion ad campaign, Cole has replaced professional models with "everyday" people in a series of photographs and videos with the tagline, "We All Walk in Different Shoes." The ad campaign is intended to dispel social prejudices while extolling the value of diversity. Among those featured in the campaign are a lesbian couple, Nicoletta and Joanna, and their daughter, Ruthie, as well as a transgender woman named Nina Poon.

Kenneth Cole is one of the most engaging - and engaged - business leaders/activists in the country. Cole also took a public stand in the battle against AIDS in 1985, and is widely considered the first in the fashion industry to do so. He has continued to use his position in the fashion industry and his business, Kenneth Cole Productions Inc., to bring awareness to not just AIDS-related causes but a wide range of socially conscious issues, including homelessness, gun safety and women’s rights.

Check out their website at KennethCole.com

first general assembly & ice cream social

2008-08-26T10:46:00.003-05:00

LGBTAA's first general assembly for the school year is next Wednesday September 3rd at 8pm. Martin Hall 2121.

We'll have a fun information session and introduction about the Alliance for those who are new to ISU and we'll welcome back returning members.

Also, on Thursday September 4th at 6:00 pm is our annual ice cream social at the Sloss House. Bring all of your friends. Everyone is welcome.

In the meantime, here's a fun music video by New Young Pony Club: Ice Cream.

Welcome back!

2008-08-25T11:33:00.002-05:00

Another school year has begun as fall session starts today. There will be a cabinet meeting today at 6:30pm at the East Student Offices in the Memorial Union.

Our first general assembly will be next Wednesday at 8pm, Martin Hall 2121.

We hope to see you all there!

Ellen & Portia tied the knot

2008-08-20T11:39:00.000-05:00

Saturday evening, August 18th was full of love, laughter, and a few tears for Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi, who exchanged personal wedding vows in front of their closest family and friends at their home in L.A.

In an exclusive interview and photos, DeGeneres, 50, and de Rossi, 35, share the most romantic moments of the night with People Magazine.

"What can I say? I'm the luckiest girl in the world," says DeGeneres. "She's officially off the market. No one else gets her. And now she'll cook and clean for me."

Amid candles and flowers by Mark's Garden, both brides, wearing designs by Zac Posen, sat on floor pillows along with author Wayne Dyer, who officiated the ceremony.

After exchanging Neil Lane rings, the couple and their guests sat down for an all-vegan menu prepared by their personal chef David Silberkleit while Sweet Lady Jane created a vegan red velvet cake for the celebration.

"The love we felt from the people surrounding us, and the love we have for each other, made this the most beautiful and emotional day," says de Rossi. "And one that we'll never forget."

thai school offers transsexual toilets

2008-08-06T13:28:00.003-05:00

Thailand's Kampang Secondary School has installed toilets for burgeoning ladyboys. Every year between 10% and 20% of his boys in this school consider themselves to be transgender - boys who would rather be girls.

"They used to be teased every time they used the boys' toilets, so they started using the girls' toilets instead. But that made the girls feel uncomfortable. It made these boys unhappy, and started to affect their work." said headteacher Sitisak Sumontha.

So the school offered to build the transgender boys their own facility, and they welcomed it.

read the rest and watch the video here.

iowa pride network's leadership training

2008-07-27T11:12:00.002-05:00

On August 14, 2008, Iowa Pride Network will be hosting its 4th Annual LGBT & Allied Leadership Training for high school and college students throughout the state. The training will be held in Des Moines at Drake University (Meredith Hall) from 10:00 AM until 4:00 PM. Check-in will begin at 9:00 AM, and the conference will start promptly at 10:00 AM. Lunch will be provided. This is a FREE event!

NEW THIS YEAR:

The Gay-Straight Alliance Advisor Roundtable. Iowa Pride Network recognizes that as much as students need resources and support, GSA advisors also appreciate opportunities to network and gain resources. If you are an advisor or a faculty member who would like to help start a GSA at your school, please register for the training today! If you are a student please pass this information along to your advisor or an ally faculty member who might want to attend.

Registration Deadline: August 8, 2008
REGISTER FOR THE LEADERSHIP TRAINING TODAY!
http://www.iowapridenetwork.org/trainingreg.htm

MISSION:

The mission of the Annual Leadership Training is to provide LGBT & Allied High School & College students the resources they need to be effective leaders in their schools and communities. Students will come together to develop leadership skills and get a head-start on creating Gay-Straight Alliances (GSA) as well as enhancing existing High School and College GSAs. Students will also have the opportunity to:

Learn how to create change on the local level
Receive resources and materials for you and your student club
Network with other students from around Iowa
Develop programming plans for your student club
Gain increased skill-sets regarding public speaking
Organize and run effective meetings
Make new friends

Again, this training is FREE and is sure to be a tremendous networking and community-building opportunity. If you or members of your group are able to attend please register online or download the Registration Form and mail it to:

Iowa Pride Network
3839 Merle Hay Rd. Suite #285
Des Moines, IA 50310

Further details regarding the training will be updated to the website. Check back often.

More questions or need more info? Call the Iowa Pride Network office at 515-273-1110 or email Rachel at rachel@iowapridenetwork.org

Pride Fest 08 postponed!

2008-06-14T12:22:00.001-05:00

Due to the worsening flooding situation in Des Moines, Capital City Pride, in consultation with Des Moines authorities, has decided to postpone major weekend PrideFest 2008 events until September. All available city resources are needed for emergency preparations. Please watch for an announcement in the coming days about a rescheduled Saturday Night Street Party, Pride Parade, and Sunday Community Pride Festival.

For more information check out capitalcitypride.org

you better recognize!

2008-05-29T22:16:00.004-05:00

New York Governor David A. Paterson has directed all state agencies to begin to revise their policies and regulations to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other jurisdictions, like Massachusetts, California and Canada.

[Read the rest here.]

[Related article.]

breaking news

2008-05-15T12:50:00.002-05:00

California Supreme Court released their gay marriage decision! 4-3 they struck down the ban on same sex marriage.

guess what?

2008-05-09T17:30:00.002-05:00

School's out for summer!

School is officially out today! But that doesn't mean you'll have to wait for late August to check us out again. Some of us will be here taking summer classes, and we'll keep you updated with LGBTA news, fun facts, events etc. You'll also get to know more about next semester's new officers and advisors.

If you are an incomming freshman this fall, a transfer student, or a returning student who would like to know more about our group, keep checking back throughout the summer for updates and more info.

Have a great summer vacation!

thanks for the memories

2008-05-01T11:30:00.002-05:00

It's hard to believe that the school year is almost over. It seemed like it was only yesterday when I first joined the ISU LGBTA Alliance. I was a bit nervous when I walked in that first night in room 2121 of Martin Hall. But I was greeted with friendly faces and eventually made some friends along the way.

I had a great time serving in the cabinet this semester. I learned a great deal of things when I helped organize the spring benefit show. I look forward to serving in the cabinet in the fall -- in a new position. And I'm definitely excited to discover what's in store for the ISU LGBTAA this fall.

And as we close the school year, lets look back at some of the memories we created this year.

Pictures from the Alliance bonfire at the beginning of the 2007-2008 school year.

pictures from 08 spring benefit show

2008-04-29T23:00:00.000-05:00

Our opening act: CJ Champ
Our emcee: Anthony Marinaro
CC Sakowitz
Synitha Sanchez
Stephanie Steele
Selena Sakowitz
Matt & Kate
yours truly w/ Synitha Sanchez & Selena Sakowitz

Banquet honors LGBTAA - News

2008-04-28T21:30:00.000-05:00

Banquet honors LGBTAA - News

LETTER: Differing opinions need not necessitate hate - Opinion

2008-04-28T21:19:00.000-05:00

LETTER: Differing opinions need not necessitate hate - Opinion

awareness week pictures

2008-04-25T13:02:00.003-05:00

S. MILLER: I am a transgender Cyclone - Opinion

2008-04-23T10:09:00.000-05:00

S. MILLER: I am a transgender Cyclone - Opinion

Sophie Miller will be at the Free Speech Zone today from noon to 2pm. Tonight at the general assembly, we will be watching the movie Transamerica, followed by a discussion and a Q&A with Sophie.

Last night's Bisexual Talk went well. Thank you all for coming.

Tomorrow is Ally Day, the allies prepared a fun game at the Free Speech Zone. (Outside Parks Library)

*pictures of the events coming soon :)

Day of Silence, Night of Noise

2008-04-22T16:30:00.000-05:00

ISU LGBTAA Spring Benefit Show.

Friday, April 25th @ 7pm. Memorial Union's Maintenance Shop

Tickets are available at the M-Shop

$7 in advance. $8 at the door.

We're back!

2008-04-22T16:09:00.000-05:00

ISU LGBTAA Blog is back!

We are celebrating LGBT Awareness week. April 21-25.
A week exploring the issues that face all of the letters in the acronym.

Monday = Lesbian/Gay
Look for the display case in the MU next to the West Student Office Space!
Check for the chalking around campus also.

Tuesday = Bisexual
We'll have a speaker in Martin 2121 followed by a movie and a discussion.

Wednesday = Transgender
There will be a speaker in the Free Speech zone outside of the library.
A brief chat with the speaker at GA and then Transamerica.

Thursday = Ally
A group of allies are putting together an event in the Free Speech zone.
Show up to help out and show our support.

Friday = Day of Silence Join us by wearing black and not speaking for the day.

ISU Daily Articles

LGBTAA kicks off Awareness Week starting Monday - News

LETTER: Who's afraid of a little sidewalk chalk?

Happy Halloween!

2007-10-31T22:41:00.001-05:00

My Halloween gift to you!

We're live folks

2007-10-19T00:58:00.000-05:00

So I know we haven't put anything up in a week, and some people are missing us!

Cut us some slack mary, we do the best we can! J/K love you oh so much honey!

I'll explain everything in the TalkyBlog.

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens!
Nate:)

Next Week: National Coming Out Day

2007-10-02T09:54:00.000-05:00

Hello Alliance blog buddies!

Next Thursday, October 11th is National Coming Out Day (NCOD).

Between the LGBTAA, the ISU Committee on Lectures, ISU's LGBT Student Services Office and SUB (Student Union Board), there is a week full of events that help you celebrate or support the COMING OUT process!

Check out our Google calendar and the information below and get excited for an awesomely fabulous week! It's like Pride Month.. in October! =)

Monday (10/8) :
10am to 4pm - It's Ok With Me T-Shirt Distribution
Location: Memorial Union
We'll be distributing the new It's Ok With Me t-shirts in the Memorial Union at the table on the south side of the staircase leading from the food court area to the M-Shop. Pre-order your shirt
by sending your size and number of shirts to itsokwithmeisu@gmail.com . See the It's Ok With Me section for more details.

7pm to 8:30pm - Workshop - Ally Training
Location: 2121 Martin Hall
The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender Student Services (LGBTSS) -- a unit of the Dean of Students Office at Iowa State University -- will present an engaging workshop that will give its participants the tools they need to be effective Allies to the LGBT community. Also come to learn how you can get involved with the LGBTSS office at ISU! (Co-sponsored by the LGBTA Alliance)

Tuesday (10/9) :
6pm - Film - In Good Conscience
Location: South Ballroom of the Memorial Union
8pm - Speaker - Sister Jeannine Gramick - "The Place of Gays and Lesbians in the Church"
Location: Sun Room of the Memorial Union
Co-sponsored by the Committee on Lectures and Belonging. In Good Conscience is a documentary film about the story of Sister Jeannine Gramick and her faith journey and battle with the Vatican over the rights of gay and lesbian Catholics. In 1999 the Vatican's Congregation
for the Doctrine of the Faith permanently prohibited her from any pastoral work with lesbian or gay persons. In 2000 the School Sisters of Notre Dame ordered her to cease speaking about the
Vatican investigation and about homosexuality in general. She transferred to the Sisters of Loretto in 2001 in order to continue engaging in lesbian/gay ministry.

We're excited to announce that - thanks to the efforts of ISU's Committee on Lectures and the local Catholic group Belonging - the amazing Sister Gramick will be at ISU speaking after the showing of In Good Conscience to address the topic of "The Place of Gays and Lesbians in the Church."

Wednesday (10/10):
8 - 9pm - Workshop - Coming Out 101 (How to Tell Your Story)
Location: 2121 Martin Hall
This interactive workshop -- put on by the Alliance -- will help you find the power in your personal story. Whether you're gay, bi, transgendered, or an ally-- your story can change the world. Come to get some great tips and maybe even sign up to speak and share your story at the National Coming Out Day Rally the following afternoon!

Thursday (10/11):
11am - 1pm - Rally! - National Coming Out Day Rally
Location: Free Speech Zone (just south of Parks Library)
Quite possibly the most exciting event of the week of National Coming Out Day activities, every year the rally draws a crowd of people to listen to speakers who care enough to speak up and speak out about any number of things: coming out, their vision for the LGBT community, or just words of encouragement and support. Whatever it is, the rally is a rewarding experience that is sure to recharge your passion for LGBT activism. Make sure to wear your It's Ok With Me t-shirts!

1pm - 3pm - Open House - LGBTSS Open House
Location: 1034 Student Services Building
The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Student Services (LGBTSS) is a unit of the Dean of Students Office at Iowa State University and has a wealth of resources available to support LGBT and Allied students at Iowa State University. Following the National Coming Out Day Rally, there will be an open house in the
LGBTSS office and LGBTSS library to introduce people to the office staff and resources! Oh, and did we mention there will be free goodies?

8pm - Film - Brokeback Mountain
Location: Pioneer Room of the Memorial Union
SUB Films presents this screening of the film.
Synopsis: In 1963, two young men hire on as Wyoming ranch hands. During months of isolation, a bond develops. When the season ends, they part, only to realize the depth of their feelings. Thus begins a decades-long affair that the two try to hide, proving to be simultaneously beautiful and devastating.

Friday (10/12):
Noon - Launch Event - Lunch Discussion & Launch of MatthewsPlace.com
Location: 202 Carver
Bring your lunch and watch/discuss an online video stream from Judy Shepard to launch MatthewsPlace.com on the 9th Anniversary of her son's - Matthew Shepard's - passing. This launch is the beginning of a historical web resource and part of a critical discussion of disenfranchised LGBT youth. Co-sponsored by the LGBTSS and LGBTAA.